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生活中的5个球- M% z: @; N6 e! S
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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0 L! ~7 F1 ?5 h8 b2 m$ F设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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S7 q0 O( V* k ?, ]0 W2 c* F怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。/ W1 L/ }9 J; w
6 g- B2 e; u9 e# }2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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1 j3 S! J, M" _( @2 m t: g# U3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。" C% l: q0 S( i8 t* Y& Y
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。- ]- W. C1 g7 p7 L0 B0 M4 Z! E2 d# h
1 w3 g7 c3 i N3 t; U7 M7 z6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ; G% ~: ?! X w2 q( @: p; V) J1 t
' B6 w8 d& |$ v3 |3 w8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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& T! Y( T& H2 Y; P/ P4 ]10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。/ g+ G( d6 y$ ?( I. H" E
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。1 U3 }2 Y8 F5 g1 _ s4 H8 V
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。- h* B1 c+ W$ ]
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Five Balls Of Life0 d; A8 ?1 m/ P0 L9 N
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.8 t1 ^6 A: c; r1 N& v
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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0 g& X6 P$ w) _0 B* C1 fImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.3 p' X# y- B3 `7 U$ x# M
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. E, D v! u2 ^3 r c$ l
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?# U/ W/ y# O, Q; X/ g- N
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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! E9 v( X4 Y& O8 b$ _7 V9 u# s3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.6 K, [& N) v( X
1 i; I$ [, N8 L9 g- k, M4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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9 `( X2 G/ F% D2 l( i) F" w1 v6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.) r" s% X9 T( h; p# ~; a! J
0 G. e( [3 t& ?0 X* z% r4 ?. Y4 i7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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6 T0 t- H, u5 W' z$ ` j& L( h9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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8 i, I& b3 K; r' Y8 s10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated., r( J* s, c. ]3 N
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.4 o" c* ~5 n4 x1 W+ i; _( k& G
* t6 |4 E+ H; w/ a& X12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.3 r& j$ H' K/ S
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