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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson& |0 F5 Y$ V0 K) N( Q! J
) k7 B2 x, B% t2 g/ Y2 n9 N设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。; P; I0 m+ ]: l. Y( X
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。8 v: b7 g9 Y9 E9 Z P
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。9 x* R K* d" R$ V6 n1 @- J
+ q7 D j5 p3 j1 J5 H$ g怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。" q# D/ n5 `/ i$ E! V: L/ ?
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。4 L6 j) l' v1 y) t" B7 f
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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( S! L3 o5 s, ]- E- ]7 v: O( G4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。' @& Q" X* ? m) ^9 j t) N
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。" Q }5 s# U% K1 d- C
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 9 | [0 Q; Q: M5 N
! F7 i1 K# D) U8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。/ T R- X3 E5 H, i2 P, o$ O% D
* ~: F* z; D) e4 i3 t% [9 d9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。6 d1 M# h/ m& E @$ c- ~ @2 R' l
8 T+ J/ w& G/ e; f! }10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。/ S6 T+ T& H$ l0 D* [
T1 g4 ^: F, h( Y# g$ i$ [: P11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。8 P, d/ V/ t' `1 g% n; H
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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) ~' L0 X# R0 a) l0 m0 c原文:
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' J- f& h" n# z% A8 M7 ?Five Balls Of Life
) Q: V% z# v6 [4 ^ X3 S6 {This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson." Y* P/ f$ r4 K( M1 M
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:& e. `3 b- ]* }
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.) g4 E; F, x( g [
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
- F. N5 t3 s) V! FThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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. n. Q' b. f+ O4 a* k0 [- m) m1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.# ?% ~5 \ x1 F' [+ `/ |
4 z' J# F% R7 L" p: O/ X% N9 t2 [; [2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.8 y i' \1 h2 y6 D' J0 ?
/ c6 O0 F$ y! }6 o# J- |# F, \3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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6 N. N' y2 f2 V q4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.2 Z+ K; y, m9 O
' F% J) V1 Z& U- k, A5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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j& c/ @" c& z, `* j+ Q7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.3 w* O0 J: ?9 O5 s& e( M }8 ?
0 T7 ]) Z1 K" d1 q8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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" r& N& ~/ I3 J7 E! V9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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8 a( {& W7 b$ h- _11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.0 q. E! J$ h& g2 _8 ~5 a9 T
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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